Marie N Davis
Marie N Davis
Monday, November 26, 2012
Personal costs Jan - Nov 2012
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Sunday, November 25, 2012
St Guthlac's Church - Fishtoft, Lincolnshire - family graves
Gracious Father, I pray for your Church.
Fill it with your truth, and keep it in your peace,
Where it is corrupt, purge it;
where it is in error, direct it;
where it is right, strengthen and confirm it;
where it needs help, provide for it;
where it is divided, heal it,
and unite it in your love,
through Jesus Christ our Saviour.
Amen
source St Guthlac's website
Trying to influence Agencies involved
Don't try it again Mrs Davis
'Don't speak to him when he calls, he wants to make trouble'
You may be right in the assertion, but this is not only a serious allegation and slanderous it is an attempt to subvert officialdom and the system and a legal framework under which they all should work. It is also very unwise, don't you think? If not, then seek advice, as you should do in your other activities, you do not know best, you are an expert on what?
Caligraphy?
I have today given a polite note to your boy, Laurence Davis.
He refused it, I left it beside him
It was some polite advice, straight to the point
'Don't speak to him when he calls, he wants to make trouble'
You may be right in the assertion, but this is not only a serious allegation and slanderous it is an attempt to subvert officialdom and the system and a legal framework under which they all should work. It is also very unwise, don't you think? If not, then seek advice, as you should do in your other activities, you do not know best, you are an expert on what?
Caligraphy?
I have today given a polite note to your boy, Laurence Davis.
He refused it, I left it beside him
It was some polite advice, straight to the point
Police in Peterborough
To try to ward off serious charges, what does he do Mr J H Davis?
Threatens 'I'm informing the police'
You believe that concerns me, when it comes to this nonsense and what you have taken from my parents. It does not.
Threatened with violence, held by Army and Police abroad. Under threat of expulsion for aiding civil rights activists. Bothers me? Not a jot my friend.
Violence, menaces, will not work
You may control your own family. But not me.
You are out of control, and so is your spouse Marie Davis
Threatens 'I'm informing the police'
You believe that concerns me, when it comes to this nonsense and what you have taken from my parents. It does not.
Threatened with violence, held by Army and Police abroad. Under threat of expulsion for aiding civil rights activists. Bothers me? Not a jot my friend.
Violence, menaces, will not work
You may control your own family. But not me.
You are out of control, and so is your spouse Marie Davis
On and on it goes, reaches the Italian Police
What you know and what you don’t know, some is there, not all
Who else is taking money fm Grandies
Did Grandma buy the sofa you offered her?
Uncle John’s stuff was all junked
You say you are a teacher!
Who had care of Granpies account before the Glumm’s? Twas Sophist
Watch the blog
Who sent the Police from Rome to your brother P to find him and bring him home coz 'is Dad was dyin’, you did
Disfunctional families?
Disgraceful perhaps we describe theem!
Money taken from Grandie Summer 2012
Who else is taking money fm Grandies
Did Grandma buy the sofa you offered her?
Uncle John’s stuff was all junked
You say you are a teacher!
Who had care of Granpies account before the Glumm’s? Twas Sophist
Watch the blog
Who sent the Police from Rome to your brother P to find him and bring him home coz 'is Dad was dyin’, you did
Disfunctional families?
Disgraceful perhaps we describe theem!
Money taken from Grandie Summer 2012
Saturday, November 24, 2012
Have you seen fear in an old man's eyes? I have!
In his isolation and inability to move and his one good arm
For cannot fend the blighters off
Nor parry for fear of reprisal
What might that be?
What more can they do to me?
I don't have to eat more mash do I?
When I don't want it
From that soggy mushy pile
I cannot even comment on controverial things
Which means almost everything
For fear of ...... well you know
Reprisal will mean attitude or demeanour
Or withdrawl
Or no more razors allowed
This or that isn't deemed good for me any more
By others
I have no say
I just nod
Don't upset them now Jim
They are in charge of everything
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I have seen the fear in his eyes, when money is mentioned
It's the way a cornered frightened animal looks, when cornered and about to be dispatched by his pursuers.
Them bloody eye ties(unfinished)
Yer ancient submariner sits somewhere, N'vember’s poppy day
In an ‘ouse he bought on is own 'count
Done the war and return from his fray
Tells lies and will curse you right quietly, ‘ Twasn’t like this in them days
Them eye ties near got us that Sundi’
'The bastards the cowards' he’ll say
‘They did for the Fernie the frigate, put an 'ole in mi ‘gin room that night
Snook out from Musala the wops did
In the dark, they weren’t ready to fight’
Zip through warm waters the fish flew, There weren’t not a sound we could hear
Their boats w'just rubber and wooden
With the fish mounted forward like spears
My thumpers were blasted all over, inch hot steel shred right thru’ the glare
Shards killed Tim 'n' ‘Enry right off
Course the plates of the side let in air
Med water poured in like the clappers, and the pumps couldn’t cope with it all
We slav'd ‘ard with big buckets to bale it
‘Neath black smoke which came on us in palls
I reached down and collared blonde Nicky,
Nigh sixteen the boy looked if that
Then 'e drowned in black diesel poor bugger
Was lots of ‘em didn’t get back
‘Ave ye’ been on the tipple me old duck?’, says the old dear in red kneeling down
‘A good night was it me darlin'?
’
As I lay with my bike on the ground
It clutches an' grabs at me chest, it skews and it turns and it jabs
I can manage a rubbery gurgle
Then they hurt as they lift me and grab
In this old chair I fight at near ninety, torn and broken these days you might sigh
Yet a strength in my spirit from Fernie
Is still 'ere ..... and t’will be
- ‘til my poppy day dies
HMS Fernie or another ship of Dad’s did get hit. He lost mates in those days. His sub was HMS Albatross I think, he has different names for it and never talks about WW2 really, he dislikes the thoughts of it I think, and I understand, except for the Italians, and he'll mention them with venom if he does. He will say some things to confuse though.
Well they confuse me!
Perhaps they're designed to!
It's bloody allowed 'ent it?
Fernie was a Type I, Hunt-class Escort Destroyer built in 1939 in Scotland
Don't give 'im my number
Marie Davis, 20 ......... Rd, Peterborough, Cambs, UK<br>
I have received your message that you 'do not wish your telephone number to be programmed into Dad's new limited number dedicated mobile 'phone'.
This needs to be communicated to me in writing
Anything you and your husband (your agent) wish to communicate likewise
Dad, not in control of his money, is concerned about how a 'phone will be paid for, bills, remember, BILLS. You cannot be relied upon to pay telephone bills and it will be cut off if they are not paid he says.<br>
signed P Francis Oct 2012
I have received your message that you 'do not wish your telephone number to be programmed into Dad's new limited number dedicated mobile 'phone'.
This needs to be communicated to me in writing
Anything you and your husband (your agent) wish to communicate likewise
Dad, not in control of his money, is concerned about how a 'phone will be paid for, bills, remember, BILLS. You cannot be relied upon to pay telephone bills and it will be cut off if they are not paid he says.<br>
signed P Francis Oct 2012
Abuse - why won't folks report it? Fear!
Comic Relief funded study into elderly abuse
Methodology and report (extract)
http://assets.comicrelief.com/cr09/docs/older_people_abuse_report.pdf
5.2 Barriers to taking action
The decision to take action was not always an easy one for older people and there was a range of factors and barriers that influenced either the type of action taken by respondents and whether they reported the mistreatment or abuse or took any other action at all. The identified barriers relate to:
• the limitations on taking action placed on the older person by the nature of their personal circumstances and the abusive situation;
• concerns about the potential effect of action taken (on the respondent, the perpetrator, significant others, or in aggravating the abusive situation);
• older people’s understanding of the role and remit of agencies and perceptions about their capacity to take effective action on the older person’s behalf. The first and second of these are discussed below.
Barriers relating to the involvement of agencies in taking action are dealt with in section 5.4. National Centre for Social Research 34
5.2.1 Limitations of the older person’s circumstances
One set of barriers to reporting or taking action against mistreatment or abuse related to the personal circumstances of the older person. Specifically, these were:
• low self-confidence and self-esteem
• experience of bereavement
• physical frailty
Low self-confidence and self-esteem
The emotional state of the respondent, their confidence and self-esteem, appeared to be important for whether or not they felt able to take action. This was sometimes itself an impact of the mistreatment or abuse they had experienced. For example, respondents talked about a loss of confidence after making a misjudgement, for example, after having their savings plundered by a partner or befriending someone who stole money from them. These respondents did eventually take action although the decision to do so was not straightforward for them and often required encouragement or guidance from other people, such as family and friends.
Experience of bereavement
Where older people had recently been bereaved, this also affected the extent to which they felt able to take action. Those who had lost their partner described not having anyone with whom to talk through their decision to take action and others were reluctant to add to the stress of bereavement by undertaking action.
Physical frailty
Respondents’ physical frailty was a further barrier to reporting mistreatment or abuse and older people were particularly unwilling to invite confrontation if they felt they would be unable to defend themselves. People also referred to specific illness or incapacity at the time of the abuse that prevented them from taking action.
Perception of seriousness
Sometimes respondents felt an incident was insufficiently serious to warrant taking action, or at least taking formal action. One respondent, for example, said he did not inform the police about the theft of money by his grandson because it involved relatively small sums and therefore was not serious enough.
5.2.2 Concerns about the effect of taking action
As well as the limitations placed on older people by the nature of their circumstances, further barriers to taking action were evident that related to their concerns over the potential impact of taking action, not only on their own situation but others’.
These concerns included:
• fear of isolation
• fear of being seen to be ‘making a fuss’
• fear of being blamed.
• embarrassment
• the wellbeing of the respondent’s family and significant others
• the health and wellbeing of the perpetrator
• fear of exacerbating the abuse.
National Centre for Social Research 35
Fear of isolation
Older people expressed fears that reporting mistreatment or abuse could lead to separation from their partner or estrangement from other family members, and cause them to become isolated.
In other cases, respondents were concerned that taking action could alienate others who were close to the perpetrator, for example other members of the respondent’s family or friends.
Fear of being seen to be ‘making a fuss’
There was also evidence of anxiety among respondents about how they would be seen by others if they did take action. For example, even where the respondent felt affected by the abuse, they feared others would not think it was sufficiently serious to warrant action and described not wanting to ‘make a fuss’.
Concerns about being blamed
Others were worried that they themselves would be blamed for the abusive situation.
One respondent, for example, suffered ongoing and serious psychological abuse from her husband but feared involving the council in case she lost the right to live in her home.
Embarrassment
Embarrassment about disclosing their experience could also be a factor in older people’s reluctance to take action, especially where the abuse was sexual in nature.
The wellbeing of the respondent’s family and significant others
In addition to ensuring their own wellbeing, older people were keen to protect their families and those close to them and this affected both their decision to take action and their approach to doing so. One respondent, for example, did not wish to tell her children too much about problems she was having with other family members in case they were subjected to the same harassment as she had been.
The health and well-being of the perpetrator
Perhaps surprisingly, respondents were also aware of and worried about the effect of taking action on the perpetrator, for example where the perpetrator was ill or temporarily injured. This affected when the respondent felt able to take action though in all cases where this was relevant the older person did eventually report the mistreatment or abuse.
Fear of exacerbating the abuse
Respondents were further concerned that any action taken did not further exacerbate the abusive situation. In some cases this meant the respondent was reluctant to involve other people for fear of making their situation worse.
For example, one respondent who was physically abused by a friend, was concerned about involving the police in case it aggravated the situation. ‘I didn’t report it to the police, no, I kept the police out of it…I just didn’t want to, I didn’t want to cause any more animosity.’
Methodology and report (extract)
http://assets.comicrelief.com/cr09/docs/older_people_abuse_report.pdf
5.2 Barriers to taking action
The decision to take action was not always an easy one for older people and there was a range of factors and barriers that influenced either the type of action taken by respondents and whether they reported the mistreatment or abuse or took any other action at all. The identified barriers relate to:
• the limitations on taking action placed on the older person by the nature of their personal circumstances and the abusive situation;
• concerns about the potential effect of action taken (on the respondent, the perpetrator, significant others, or in aggravating the abusive situation);
• older people’s understanding of the role and remit of agencies and perceptions about their capacity to take effective action on the older person’s behalf. The first and second of these are discussed below.
Barriers relating to the involvement of agencies in taking action are dealt with in section 5.4. National Centre for Social Research 34
5.2.1 Limitations of the older person’s circumstances
One set of barriers to reporting or taking action against mistreatment or abuse related to the personal circumstances of the older person. Specifically, these were:
• low self-confidence and self-esteem
• experience of bereavement
• physical frailty
Low self-confidence and self-esteem
The emotional state of the respondent, their confidence and self-esteem, appeared to be important for whether or not they felt able to take action. This was sometimes itself an impact of the mistreatment or abuse they had experienced. For example, respondents talked about a loss of confidence after making a misjudgement, for example, after having their savings plundered by a partner or befriending someone who stole money from them. These respondents did eventually take action although the decision to do so was not straightforward for them and often required encouragement or guidance from other people, such as family and friends.
Experience of bereavement
Where older people had recently been bereaved, this also affected the extent to which they felt able to take action. Those who had lost their partner described not having anyone with whom to talk through their decision to take action and others were reluctant to add to the stress of bereavement by undertaking action.
Physical frailty
Respondents’ physical frailty was a further barrier to reporting mistreatment or abuse and older people were particularly unwilling to invite confrontation if they felt they would be unable to defend themselves. People also referred to specific illness or incapacity at the time of the abuse that prevented them from taking action.
Perception of seriousness
Sometimes respondents felt an incident was insufficiently serious to warrant taking action, or at least taking formal action. One respondent, for example, said he did not inform the police about the theft of money by his grandson because it involved relatively small sums and therefore was not serious enough.
5.2.2 Concerns about the effect of taking action
As well as the limitations placed on older people by the nature of their circumstances, further barriers to taking action were evident that related to their concerns over the potential impact of taking action, not only on their own situation but others’.
These concerns included:
• fear of isolation
• fear of being seen to be ‘making a fuss’
• fear of being blamed.
• embarrassment
• the wellbeing of the respondent’s family and significant others
• the health and wellbeing of the perpetrator
• fear of exacerbating the abuse.
National Centre for Social Research 35
Fear of isolation
Older people expressed fears that reporting mistreatment or abuse could lead to separation from their partner or estrangement from other family members, and cause them to become isolated.
In other cases, respondents were concerned that taking action could alienate others who were close to the perpetrator, for example other members of the respondent’s family or friends.
Fear of being seen to be ‘making a fuss’
There was also evidence of anxiety among respondents about how they would be seen by others if they did take action. For example, even where the respondent felt affected by the abuse, they feared others would not think it was sufficiently serious to warrant action and described not wanting to ‘make a fuss’.
Concerns about being blamed
Others were worried that they themselves would be blamed for the abusive situation.
One respondent, for example, suffered ongoing and serious psychological abuse from her husband but feared involving the council in case she lost the right to live in her home.
Embarrassment
Embarrassment about disclosing their experience could also be a factor in older people’s reluctance to take action, especially where the abuse was sexual in nature.
The wellbeing of the respondent’s family and significant others
In addition to ensuring their own wellbeing, older people were keen to protect their families and those close to them and this affected both their decision to take action and their approach to doing so. One respondent, for example, did not wish to tell her children too much about problems she was having with other family members in case they were subjected to the same harassment as she had been.
The health and well-being of the perpetrator
Perhaps surprisingly, respondents were also aware of and worried about the effect of taking action on the perpetrator, for example where the perpetrator was ill or temporarily injured. This affected when the respondent felt able to take action though in all cases where this was relevant the older person did eventually report the mistreatment or abuse.
Fear of exacerbating the abuse
Respondents were further concerned that any action taken did not further exacerbate the abusive situation. In some cases this meant the respondent was reluctant to involve other people for fear of making their situation worse.
For example, one respondent who was physically abused by a friend, was concerned about involving the police in case it aggravated the situation. ‘I didn’t report it to the police, no, I kept the police out of it…I just didn’t want to, I didn’t want to cause any more animosity.’
Thursday, November 22, 2012
Safeguarding Vulnerable Adults - Sources and The Ultimata
1. Almost 300 pages is the Guide that seems definitive
This report is available online
www.scie.org.uk
Social Care Institute for Excellence
Fifth Floor
2–4 Cockspur Street
London
SW1Y 5BH
tel 020 7024 7650
fax 020 7024 7651
www.scie.org.uk
2. Give back the access card and all paperwork (P O) and don't touch it again. Simple.
3. One other has stated 'Pension has been stolen'
4. Refrain from coercion and other forms of abuse,
5. Do NOT issue buy or advise on medicaments
2. Give back the access card and all paperwork (P O) and don't touch it again. Simple.
3. One other has stated 'Pension has been stolen'
4. Refrain from coercion and other forms of abuse,
5. Do NOT issue buy or advise on medicaments
Money and coercion
Two cardigans were like this, Jan Feb Mar 2012
No money!
March ca..I took them out of the house, underpants too,same state, I cleared 12 year old food items from a needed cupboard, I threw them out. His clothes and bedding, stored on top of a freezer, can now go into the cleaned out cupboard. I cleaned a second cupboard out and then Dad was told I had done it and he went bananas. Who told him, Guess who ?
These clothes, underclothes, stained sheet, the bag full kept by me now, more disgusting underpants replaced Nov 2012, replaced by me,
Mum was asked to pay for the cardigan replacements, not by me, she did ....
Ultimata
You have been given, Marie N Davis and John Henry Davis, several ultimata
You neither acknowledge by 'phone, nor in writing
You shall have to be cleft or worse, that is your fate, fear not I
You neither acknowledge by 'phone, nor in writing
You shall have to be cleft or worse, that is your fate, fear not I
Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Flowers from Millie and Daisy
Any redolence overpowered by the pungent scent of old urine, new urine and other scents impregnated into the carpets, there are, Glory be to the Lord, full twelve yellow roses on the old table in the room where Granpa spends his long long days
N'er an air freshner, worse, never any disinfectant; cleaning materials, forget it!
How on earth have you been brung up your snappers, your mindset?
Your humanity you misandrists you
And you were teaching little sprogs and big sprogs too at Skool
Oh the 'Larkins in the Spring Air'
Sophist and Lorenzo, then Joanna, and Naomi is your names (Naomi Davis - the cleaner, her Mum says she pays her £400 a monthy to do it, clean the house. Naomi lives im Belfast)
In you nip, Grandpa Grandpa, we can't do nowt but have some flowers; bootiful 'ent they?
The Carers look at the twelve yellow roses and wonder why ....and on ad nauseum my friends ad nauseum!!!
References
Yea! In the day of your distress, when your men fall dying by the murderous hand of Hector, you shall not know how to help them, and shall rend your heart with rage for the hour when you offered insult to the bravest of the Achaeans."
Lark in the Clear Air - Irish lilt (trad)
'Larkin P.' - Poet Laureate and 'Your parents fuck you up' ode(copyright)
Book 1 Iliad
N'er an air freshner, worse, never any disinfectant; cleaning materials, forget it!
How on earth have you been brung up your snappers, your mindset?
Your humanity you misandrists you
And you were teaching little sprogs and big sprogs too at Skool
Oh the 'Larkins in the Spring Air'
Sophist and Lorenzo, then Joanna, and Naomi is your names (Naomi Davis - the cleaner, her Mum says she pays her £400 a monthy to do it, clean the house. Naomi lives im Belfast)
In you nip, Grandpa Grandpa, we can't do nowt but have some flowers; bootiful 'ent they?
The Carers look at the twelve yellow roses and wonder why ....and on ad nauseum my friends ad nauseum!!!
References
Yea! In the day of your distress, when your men fall dying by the murderous hand of Hector, you shall not know how to help them, and shall rend your heart with rage for the hour when you offered insult to the bravest of the Achaeans."
Lark in the Clear Air - Irish lilt (trad)
'Larkin P.' - Poet Laureate and 'Your parents fuck you up' ode(copyright)
Book 1 Iliad
You denigrate, demotivate and worse, agin!
You can't read this clearly here but it's Firkin's ( ret'd Primary teacher and now reincarnated as Mother Teresa of Calcutta) hand writ note to Prestige Carers who look after Pa at the house (Peterborough C C preferred and largely paid in their appreciated largesse) Mostly lady Carers of 21 Nov 12
'Dear Carer's (stet),
Please do not give dad the bottle of milk during day - he does not drink from it
T. You.(stet)
M.D.'
Maria the kindly Portguese newly arrived here in UK, a Carer, who has a lovely little girl and bought Dad underpants when I took the old terrible stained and tattered ones from the house cause she knows where to get the ones he wears AND I PAID HER FOR THOSE TOO 'CAUSE YOU DIDN'T MAKE MONEY AVAILABLE AS BLOODY USUAL, she, Maria from Portugal, replies
'@ (unclear symbol) Marie sorry but your Dad request all the time the bottle milk and if the carers not give to him; he is very upset! (verbatim) (stet) Maria (Carer)
21.11.12'
Back off! Demotivation, giving orders, pontificating, knowing better.
Carers follow protocol and policy .... and the law. Their ethics are not yours. They are theirs, take yer Pboro Market slings and arrows away with ye when you retreat.
Prestige Carers and Prestige the company knows what they and it can can't should and shouldn't do. They LISTEN and they HEAR the old Submariner, 'it registers', not with you tho' - and THEY give him milk which by the way AS YOU well know IS NOT YOURS and NOT FERKIN PAID FOR BY YOU!
It's MY freekin' milk, MINE GERRIT! Me own! La mia, mon lait! Mon!
AND IF POPS WANT TO JUNK IT OR TURN IT INTO CURDLED WHEY, THEN LEAVE HIM TO DO IT.
Simple!
You wanna alienate the whole of mankind including the Holy Father and Lord McAlpine?
No, you can't achieve that. Less than that I'd say.
Even with JHD and the ghosts of Henry past (May God rest his soul)
Which planet are you on Joan of Arc?
Leave them ALONE! Git yourself off somewhere before you damage someone again or their befall upon you more reper cushuns!
Lost track of objective. It's to help Dad's life be as meaningful and pleasant as poss! It ain't to display your peacocksd feffers or begin to tell US all what we can do and what we can't do ... and the chick I am going out with in addishun to me wife, or the pint of porter I'll have or won't have, and to tell uffers that I'm an alcoholic when it's eff all to do wiff you and I am quite able to detect it meeself AND it's firkin libellous stoopid!
Bet your ace at Caligraphy. Read up on his fate, his latter days, Calligula's that is.
Turak helps combat Firkin's behaviour
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Scayud of ye Mum! Nah! Ask for the 'ammer and Poetry
It is not easy for some to comprehend. Comprenez Vous? JHD.? When kids are scarid of either parent I think of Firkin Larkin and his poignant verse.
Mine's on the web, My riposte to his assertions
It's not copyright and I'm alive and so can fight fer miself, he can't.
The Old Submariner can't either? And he's still living, what a living though me boy!
Mine's on the web, My riposte to his assertions
It's not copyright and I'm alive and so can fight fer miself, he can't.
The Old Submariner can't either? And he's still living, what a living though me boy!
Depression - Advice for Teechuz
LORINTZ from Lintz was a sufferer at Uni, and I saved him!
A case study
Dashed over did I to Chemsfud
Not a rare cicumstance as you'll see
Can't hack it?
Can't make it, never will
Dancing Queen, da da, Bring on the Drama Queen sez I
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Sophist and Plato's view
Sophist comes in, she is boilin' over is she;
I cradle my little peekin in me arms
Sof (nom di plum) points manacingly and begins to slobber
With vile utterances
No, not you the teacher Sof in front of a child I plead
Instead of cuttin' off her tongue with me cutlass like wot I should uv
A primary primark flavoured Primari teacher, like yis Mum Sof
Oi can't belive it Did I not tip Sof well enuf
when it wuz wuz a kid and 'ad eff all muse I?
Must 'ave bin that!
'Give um bloody dubloonz coerced from the Ancient Submariner back, back!
Give them 800 quidi raped from iz Lloyds fir Pianna's Skool back, afore ye go lassie' sez I!
Editours footnotes:
Filip Furkin Larkin - Peterburuz Poet Looriate says 'No Body Fooks you up like ye Mum and Dad - (edited Poims) - Do they teach this at Privit School Stamfood I ponders?
For Larkinardoes and Classics students, and my lovely Nnenda who's to Cambridge bound. Haul Away Gal!!
Philip Larkin Poems are copyrite
Plato wuz unaware and not abil to make it on time anyway, he was left pensively behind in hiz gardin arrangin out the clothes
I cradle my little peekin in me arms
Sof (nom di plum) points manacingly and begins to slobber
With vile utterances
No, not you the teacher Sof in front of a child I plead
Instead of cuttin' off her tongue with me cutlass like wot I should uv
A primary primark flavoured Primari teacher, like yis Mum Sof
Oi can't belive it Did I not tip Sof well enuf
when it wuz wuz a kid and 'ad eff all muse I?
Must 'ave bin that!
'Give um bloody dubloonz coerced from the Ancient Submariner back, back!
Give them 800 quidi raped from iz Lloyds fir Pianna's Skool back, afore ye go lassie' sez I!
Editours footnotes:
Filip Furkin Larkin - Peterburuz Poet Looriate says 'No Body Fooks you up like ye Mum and Dad - (edited Poims) - Do they teach this at Privit School Stamfood I ponders?
For Larkinardoes and Classics students, and my lovely Nnenda who's to Cambridge bound. Haul Away Gal!!
Philip Larkin Poems are copyrite
Plato wuz unaware and not abil to make it on time anyway, he was left pensively behind in hiz gardin arrangin out the clothes
Deal with that Bstard. Let the Fook Inn Lawyer onnit now!!
Pops slipped me the brass thrupennies from his savins buke, he'd sold the pig and more than iz arf of the manion by then.
I rushed down to them Yuletide folks what's near the Piazza, the lernid ones.
We gor a bloody Eternal Power of She can doo what she furkin wants, tell him my ducks tell him, him, that him.
Bloody great cannon, like Waterloo, go on Welly, it's Yuletide & Suns not Bob Crachit you need me duck
Grandma's Christmas message to her kids and ther family
I have a lovely pic of Mum
I'll put it here
I'll put her Christmas Card and message to the Grandchildren too this year as Granpa isn't gonna die this year if I can help it like he did last when he took a bad bad pill me ducks.
It ducked up my Christmas 2011 it did
H.M. has a message, Gran can too I reckon
We're on the look out now me mates, vigilant is we
I'll put it here
I'll put her Christmas Card and message to the Grandchildren too this year as Granpa isn't gonna die this year if I can help it like he did last when he took a bad bad pill me ducks.
It ducked up my Christmas 2011 it did
H.M. has a message, Gran can too I reckon
We're on the look out now me mates, vigilant is we
Social Sir Vices and Police - wasting their time!
'4th World'
If I can be charged with wasting their time, then they shudn't read this.
I have no idea of the scope of what they do and I haven't an inkling of how they do it or what they are driven by. I respect them for just being there for us all. And I respect them some more for not shouting at me
Now they don't know me and won't, so well may they think I'm a bloody nitwit of an old and finished dunderheaded from Spike Island, mildly loony or even barkin'.
I may resemble one. Don't matter.
Fourth World behaviour
Fresh from Agegunle,even Kirikiri, and my school project, your school project, those who gave too, I am apalled.
Martha my wife and mother of Mary is apalled and wonders why them compatriots of hers down in the deep black '3rd' World Commonwealth countries look up to us here
They do.
Perhpaps they look up to our institutions and the framework our ancestors built with great philanthropy and a vision to end all longsighted visions.
But look up to us as individuals, well it's a question for each of us. Can we live up to them, our ancestors aspirations?
Do we?
Where are our modern day ...... (see next 'Ubiquitous Donkey Diaries' pages
If I can be charged with wasting their time, then they shudn't read this.
I have no idea of the scope of what they do and I haven't an inkling of how they do it or what they are driven by. I respect them for just being there for us all. And I respect them some more for not shouting at me
Now they don't know me and won't, so well may they think I'm a bloody nitwit of an old and finished dunderheaded from Spike Island, mildly loony or even barkin'.
I may resemble one. Don't matter.
Fourth World behaviour
Fresh from Agegunle,even Kirikiri, and my school project, your school project, those who gave too, I am apalled.
Martha my wife and mother of Mary is apalled and wonders why them compatriots of hers down in the deep black '3rd' World Commonwealth countries look up to us here
They do.
Perhpaps they look up to our institutions and the framework our ancestors built with great philanthropy and a vision to end all longsighted visions.
But look up to us as individuals, well it's a question for each of us. Can we live up to them, our ancestors aspirations?
Do we?
Where are our modern day ...... (see next 'Ubiquitous Donkey Diaries' pages
'You want fuckin' violence mate, watch this....' brother in law John Henry'
You watch yoz-self all the time in the house
You always agree and disagree (in equal measure) or sit on the fence in between
You never really frankly honestly come down on either side of the fence, unless JH does.
You quiver here and therein to acutely sense the moodz (Monday's worst, Friday, not better, not tolerable, but it is JH's citadel is not not?
Then, when the momenz's what you judge as 'right', then THAT'S the time to show SOLIDARNOSC mate. Alla morte, alla morte.
JH says jump, you do it bloody blindfold and immediato in awe of an opinion profered, nay layed down flat and bloody square as the veritable non discussable ultimate and ever to be accepted as God' own word and ever Amen , hallejuyah mate!
You then leap from the floor and swear allegiance this night and eternally, IN BLOOD if needs be
Afterwards, as you visit old Dad in the first time for years, and the offspring who says has devoted herself and it's killing her and her relationships and she needs you to help and you have to come back from milder climes quick quick... you feel thirst as you walk into the kitchen and you need a drink from Dad's kitchen tap, the source of your needs when you grew in this house many years ago..
'No! I Don't touch that, you mustn't ,don't touch anything here'
What? It's DIRTY FILTHY Dad's tap is it?
Disinfect it, the whole bloody house then!
There is none mon ami. No disinfectant. There hasn't been, won't be, zilche my friend.
ends.....
NEXT .....Look out for these coming.............
1. Bring a pair of socks for Dad
2. How to covet your Uncle
3. More on violence to children and rescuing one of the meek and vulnerable snappers (head bashed agin ther wall when he woz young see) from Uni!
Yes, YOU can buy the book, out now, 'How to bring up kids the right way me ducks, wot I sez goes and is infallibly right'... it's published by The Ubiquitous Donkey Press and printed in Peterborough (where else) costs ya (on the line) 3/6.
www.the ubiquitousdonkey.com
You always agree and disagree (in equal measure) or sit on the fence in between
You never really frankly honestly come down on either side of the fence, unless JH does.
You quiver here and therein to acutely sense the moodz (Monday's worst, Friday, not better, not tolerable, but it is JH's citadel is not not?
Then, when the momenz's what you judge as 'right', then THAT'S the time to show SOLIDARNOSC mate. Alla morte, alla morte.
JH says jump, you do it bloody blindfold and immediato in awe of an opinion profered, nay layed down flat and bloody square as the veritable non discussable ultimate and ever to be accepted as God' own word and ever Amen , hallejuyah mate!
You then leap from the floor and swear allegiance this night and eternally, IN BLOOD if needs be
Afterwards, as you visit old Dad in the first time for years, and the offspring who says has devoted herself and it's killing her and her relationships and she needs you to help and you have to come back from milder climes quick quick... you feel thirst as you walk into the kitchen and you need a drink from Dad's kitchen tap, the source of your needs when you grew in this house many years ago..
'No! I Don't touch that, you mustn't ,don't touch anything here'
What? It's DIRTY FILTHY Dad's tap is it?
Disinfect it, the whole bloody house then!
There is none mon ami. No disinfectant. There hasn't been, won't be, zilche my friend.
ends.....
NEXT .....Look out for these coming.............
1. Bring a pair of socks for Dad
2. How to covet your Uncle
3. More on violence to children and rescuing one of the meek and vulnerable snappers (head bashed agin ther wall when he woz young see) from Uni!
Yes, YOU can buy the book, out now, 'How to bring up kids the right way me ducks, wot I sez goes and is infallibly right'... it's published by The Ubiquitous Donkey Press and printed in Peterborough (where else) costs ya (on the line) 3/6.
www.the ubiquitousdonkey.com
Provided you are not forcibly stopped, you can do anything at all.
Kicking out someone's aspirations, casting them aside, forbidding their friends from contact, alienating anyone you see as unsuitable. Not a way forward is that.
Why would you always be right? Why would anyone always be right? Not possible. We cannot, some of us, see what is 'right', see what is good positive beneficial enhancing the lives of bettering their world improving their visions, we cannot take it upon ourselves to see any of those things, we may THINK them and pretend to understand them. But we cannot know them for sure. We are not enpowered or qualified to do so gerrit?
Your children are not your children.... (Gibril)
They are not your slings and arrows, they are their own manifestation of what they think life is going to be for them, what they hope it will be and what they desire it to be for their children.
GOD help us if we begin to think for their children too, our grand children.
Then, we try now to speak think dictate for everyone around us, including the cat!
We convince even the elders that we, the youngers, have better views and opinions. Young is right right, always right right?
What nonsense it is and was it always so filled with self-delusion, note now that it's brimming over and spilling on the faded yellow parchment of the brain, once crisp and white and clean
. It is an arrogance that defiles others, and it demeans crushes and reduces to zero the way we will be perceived, when we pass, as we fade. By all. And it demeans one's own self ..... and humanity too
Grandad Ryan wrote thoughts on the back of fag packets
I have some of those and I have his gun metal coloured, silver not quite, pocket watch, without a chain, 1938. When it ticks, as it is wont unprompted to do, the tobacco stained odours of Grandad drift back through this window, closed or open in they silently seep.
Then I see it, the Mile End Road to the busy busy docks,the winter night .....
Well, long and far into his bitter building site London watchman's hours he pondered
For it was far too cold to sleep you see, bitter, fingers cramped in double glove, the parafine heater only wimpered, it never glowed.
You might do well to ponder, but you will need to be guided. The Priest?
The 'Drama Queen'
You rush, hussle and bussle and rampage. You don't stop to consider. You don't reconoitre and assess, or take advice. YOU and only YOU have the answers and are always infallible. You don't talk to somesome and ask ...and then open your ear and hear and carefully listen. CAREFULLY, an odd snippet might me a gem. You DO talk, but you don't listen. Listening is the first attribute to learn. Listening first talk question query and discuss later. Listen attentively, empathetically, with a meaningful humane and compassionate face, NOT and self-induced photshopped mask, but a real one, if you have such a tool. Hear people's overview of you, your mood, your self-presentation, your attitude and the vibes you give off, yes hear that first. And then begin to talk. And the beginning is a question always, and not an answer. The very first sentence is a question, why?. Probing and understanding, really comprehending deep down helps begin a series of routes into empathy. You relate, you begin to understand what other people's priorities might be, their concerns, their foibles, their thought patterns, their aspirations - small and large, narrow and wide, about emotions, family, safeguarding their lives and their loved ones....
Gerrit?
You don't do you?
Well it IS to late, not 'it's never too late'. It is!
And in the meantime you have ucked up what you can. And it will all end in tears.
And .. in this your attegiamento you drag others in and your envelop and suffocate, you use something akin to munchausen to do it. Recognise. You will not, for you are so far alienated from this planet, it's self inflicted me duck.
BBC programmes on poverty. New series.
I have a gross advantage. I am blessed and enriched beyond my dreams by it.
'IT', if you wish to know, is 'an understanding with poverty', and I have FOUND in me, an EMPATHY' ... for the poor.
I have found it in me and it guides me always and helps me hobble along life
I keep it to myself, tucked away crumpled in my portmanteau it rests, slumbering but alive. I have managed to sit with them, and then do something, a little just a teeny weeney bit, in Agegunle Town. Agegunle. In the prison, in the madhouse and in the slum. Not much, just a little. You will never feel it, Agegunle, you will never know it. It would help, might help, you see other facets of people's lives mingled mangled mashed and miseried. Yet you affix yourself solely on the mirror image you see of yourself, your true self, the only self you want to recognise is there in that mirror. The reality is you, according to you. Wrong my friendless feindly friend, my never friend. Incorrect and twisted I regret.
BBC programmes on poverty. New series.
I have a gross advantage. I am blessed and enriched beyond my dreams by it.
'IT', if you wish to know, is 'an understanding with poverty', and I have FOUND in me, an EMPATHY' ... for the poor.
I have found it in me and it guides me always and helps me hobble along life
I keep it to myself, tucked away crumpled in my portmanteau it rests, slumbering but alive. I have managed to sit with them, and then do something, a little just a teeny weeney bit, in Agegunle Town. Agegunle. In the prison, in the madhouse and in the slum. Not much, just a little. You will never feel it, Agegunle, you will never know it. It would help, might help, you see other facets of people's lives mingled mangled mashed and miseried. Yet you affix yourself solely on the mirror image you see of yourself, your true self, the only self you want to recognise is there in that mirror. The reality is you, according to you. Wrong my friendless feindly friend, my never friend. Incorrect and twisted I regret.
Getting a hold on your life - redemption
Redemption
Take an advice and medical opinion
You have tried to rule and command people's lives and you're not equipped
You have driven out others
You have tried to control others
Being unable to support lots of children without the means is difficult and often severly damaging. Other people cannot support your life, you have to do it
There is only so much others can do
Ultimately, when you agitate and distrupt overly, you will meet an uncomfortable end
and those who have been dragged along in your wake will meet their's.
Caligraphy is only a tool. It's being able to use it effectively and express it to some human artistic or meaningful use that contributes positively to people's lives.
Thursday, November 15, 2012
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
My parents' rights
1.The well being of my parents E J (Jim) Francis and Mary Ann Francis
(both around 90 years old
2. The human rights and dignity of My Father
..........................................
Following investigations find that the matter of monies due to my parents has extended to my Father’s pension which my sister Mrs M N Davis of 20 Mayfield Road Peterborough has control of.
Serious concerns :
- Lack of food items supplied on a daily basis Jan – Nov 2012
- Lack of proper clothing
- Lack of proper cleaning at Father’s house leaving him in insanitary conditions
- Failure to provide proper medicaments and disposables such as insanitary pads in an
timely fashion.
- Failure to pay bills, telephone and gas/electricity on time resulting in the cutting
off of services and the arrival of final demand notices causing my parents extreme distress,
- Misrepresentaion of legal documents appertaining to my Father
The list goes on.
Mr John Henry Davis and Mrs Marie N Davis have failed to respond to:
- Appeals to remedy the supply of food
- To be transparent in the financial affairs and the disposal of my Father’ monies
- Appeals to return control of my Father’s monies to him
Nov 2012 added
Other matters
Refusal to repay expenses incurred by me on behalf of my Father
Refusal to cooperate and to cease the use of abusive and menacing language
Below are those Involved
Mr L Davis ? Hmm!! Silly boy
November 2012
(both around 90 years old
2. The human rights and dignity of My Father
..........................................
Following investigations find that the matter of monies due to my parents has extended to my Father’s pension which my sister Mrs M N Davis of 20 Mayfield Road Peterborough has control of.
Serious concerns :
- Lack of food items supplied on a daily basis Jan – Nov 2012
- Lack of proper clothing
- Lack of proper cleaning at Father’s house leaving him in insanitary conditions
- Failure to provide proper medicaments and disposables such as insanitary pads in an
timely fashion.
- Failure to pay bills, telephone and gas/electricity on time resulting in the cutting
off of services and the arrival of final demand notices causing my parents extreme distress,
- Misrepresentaion of legal documents appertaining to my Father
The list goes on.
Mr John Henry Davis and Mrs Marie N Davis have failed to respond to:
- Appeals to remedy the supply of food
- To be transparent in the financial affairs and the disposal of my Father’ monies
- Appeals to return control of my Father’s monies to him
Nov 2012 added
Other matters
Refusal to repay expenses incurred by me on behalf of my Father
Refusal to cooperate and to cease the use of abusive and menacing language
Below are those Involved
Mr L Davis ? Hmm!! Silly boy
November 2012
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