The Roman Catholic Church

The Roman Catholic Church has been our guiding light.
I have needed help in my life, and I have always gone to the Church, Rome, Lagos, Manchester, Maidenhead, Vetralla in Italy also.
The Roman Catholic Church has suggested that I try to repay what I have received
That has been done, I have repaid, though I can never repay all I owe to them
I have sponsored seminarists in Rome, Activist (Justice and Peace) Fathers in Nigeria.
Yes I have and I am proud of it and I am eternally grateful to Almighty God who gave me the means to do something for those Vocationists at study, for miscarriages of Justice and those in jails
I know the Vatican system just a little. I have a dear friend there now, an ordained Priest, at study under the Vatican's auspices, protected/sponsored by them and a Cardinal
He will be the very first holder of a Divinity Doctorate ever to emerge from the country of his birth

If our Peterborough based Reverend Fathers cannot help - THEN I shall solicit guidance in this direction. The Vatican can and will help and guide me I am sure and I pray so.

I shall go to them in person, I shall return to Peterborough guided and armed with a letter.
That I resolve to do, if required, very early in this coming New Year.

Caligula - 'The Illusionist'

When you seek to create an illusion around the web you weave, you had better take care.
I offer you these words:
1) There will be someone who sees through and spots the fly, however thinly disguised the gossamer web might be it will always shimmer, the fly will be exposed. Despite your best efforts to conceal the morsel affixed to the web and keep it all for yourself, it will be exposed. The fly will be apparent and it will be open to other predators to devour. Whatever illusion you have tried to construct will be apparent
2) Little clues and snippets of information appear which begin to expose your real motives and show your vulnerable points
3) Your illusion will come to light, you delude none but yourself
4) Your truths and falsehoods exposed, people will 'twig', they will see through it all.
5) In this case, your own personal statements to Martha and I opened it up. We didn't connect the links soon enough. But we have now.
6) That is why you have left no escape route, no exit strategy for yourself
7) In bocca al lupo, 'Crepi il lupo!!' say I

Be aware of the absurd, for it is an increasing phenomenon

Here in Peterborugh and elsewhere....

Johny I hardly knew ya ! Hurroo hurroo

Mum's first night at the Mayfield B & B

Mum finally, acutely schizoprenic since 1960, gives in. Father has tormented her with his jibes, his constant badgering. She leaves 8 South Parade, she can't bear it any more. The house she has made home, from 1953 when we moved in from the Wansford countryside to the town.
She accepts the offer of a bed, whilst she sorts things out. She doesn't sleep too well and comes down quietly carefully in the morning, down to your kitchen. It may be seven thirty.
She's wanting to make a cup of tea. Down you come,'Huh' you snarl at her, or at least it's not a welcoming greeting at all ... 'Huh, suppose you want something do you?'
Yes John H Davis, this was my Mum's recollection of her first day at Mayfield B & B. And that's the truth John Davis, that's how she recalls it JHD. Ask her!
Whilst I may remember you for this debacle, and the angst it has brought upon my family (that does not include YOU Davis) I CANNOT ever forget or forgive you for speaking to my Mum in that way in those circumstances, which were not of her making. She IS and remains the MOTHER of your wife JHD. Shame be upon you my brother. Shame

In Italy, where I spent many happy years among Italian families, do you know what they'd do to you piccolo mio??
May the Prophet, God bless and protect him,strike me if I should err!

That is the way you treated my little old Irish Mum Mr D. These things don't just blow away in some Fenland breeze John Davis, they remain, they linger. She will not forget that incident. To you, it's like swatting a fly, don't matter. To us, it do matter JHD, it do fratellino mio, it do matter!

This sets the tone for the way you treated my parents in general JHD I reckon.

Shame on you.
Where were we? (p) That's it, I remember............. .your future profession..... A B & B you ask. - nah, better not JHD

John Henry (hospitality we are talking about in case you forget!!!) HOSPITALITY. a warm and giving heart, a welcome, in trouble?.. let me help! You, JHD, have sent your little wifey, my beloved sister, to us few times, the first I recall, was Rome. You were leaping about then preparing for an invasion, the army thought it likely,you were somewhere in Germany soldiering. She came to Rome with one of your little twingoes, I forget which one. She had NO MONEY JHD. No brass. NONE. She came without a Deutche Mark mate?! We were not managing well at that time and things were tight, you know what I mean JHD. Never the less I hope we were able to be hospitable. I am sure we were. That's the way we were brought up. She had warm and welcoming tea for breakfast, THAT MUCH I am sure of fratellino mio.
Next time - Vetralla - 2008 was it. No JHD, Mummy and Nooomi didn't stay with us. They came though and welcome they were. But the house was too small. WE rented a beautiful medieval 1st floor apartment from Fulvio with views accross the main piazza. All modernised it is, balcony too, all mod cons. He lets it, It cost 250 Euros for the week JHD and we paid. Nooomi enjoyed the shopping. Rome, Etruscans? Nah thanks Uncle Peter, not this lifetime ta!!
There's really no lesson here for you John unfortunately (see P436 for that). You just do not understand, 'soul' is a meaningless word to you, it just does not figure in your vocabulary. Why do I waste my breath?? Your replacement is SOLE. Something affixed to the bottom of your bootiful black army size 10 boot

But, you know, treating Mum with that kind of a welcome... well .. she will not forget it, I will not forget it habibi
But we do laugh at your expense when the story is told....chortle down the road mon ami!.... I almost bought an orange juice /.. We have to laugh at you - what else is there??

.................................................................. Scene 22........, Now we leap energetically on .....The Scenario you ask
.. Well it's a mucky maundy Monday at Mayfield....

A marching song sounds out to herald in anuffer dirty Dogsforpe day , even brighten the prevailing boom and gloom mood at the Mayfield B & B
Yes 'tis He, Johny has it on his new Megaboom Military Version Ipod, full whack
He decends the stairs daintly to breakfast,boots slung round his neck by the laces, already ready, always alert ... he ignores the other guests, hurro hurroo...,
Skool beckons soon dammit, cursed life 'avin to face them little xxxs
Why ent I a Officer , why didn't I stay in??? Why damn it? He asks these questions quizically, they're rhetorical of course; whilst stamping his foot right 'ard and narrowly missing the cat's Meisen cornflakes bowl in the middle of the table? Break that and he knows Calligoola will 'ave 'im! It's the only remnant of the 66 piece set that survives, all gone aduring the Girbil attack at Wock Road, bally Geerbulls daMMITTT!! (BACK TO jOHNI...) None of the guests answers! Most drift off to contemplate in the Potting Shed, or read The Iliad by the Putrid Pond.

(Anger there is you see , J has to go to Ortnot School to teach, he HATES IT with a bally vengeance)
'That little swine soddin' Jones I swear....
I'll get the snotty nosed wossock!
I'll smash me bleedin' x into his x'
Ed. Better not Johny it's illeegul these days, as you found out!!.. and,(smiles sweetly)and, after all, Yuletide is nigh'

'Good tidings of comfort and joy, comfort and joy'....... tinkly sounds from handbells drift in through the open window, the carol singers Johny, we see the first snowflakes of the year are falling too..... 'It's them Caffedral wollars agin' Henry with their soddin' tambourines!'
'Get the Old Bill on yer line will ya? Noise infrigament ennit?'
(Footnote - whilst the Sally Army, in uniform, is welcome at Mayfield, there are NO mincepies and NO mulled wine for them Caffy gits in their poncey robes !!' - Ed)

Breakin' NEWS

Result, full time) : Mayfield Road RFC 47.5 v. P'boru Police Bloos 0

Somehow, the Police just cannot win against Johni's boys this year, despite spending £35.75 on a new striker from Whittle by the March!! (reports our sports correspondent)

KITCHEN!!!!!!!!br> 'Did you say 3 or 4 minutes? (oeufs Ballantine we guess) Toast's cummin tooo'....'.

JHD's Folk tooones - 'Johny I hardly knew ya' - is at...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFUTHcjiZGo
Hurrooo..................Hurroooo!!!! (pie and drums echoe down the street, fade out now..)

Carol singers at Mayfield Road

Letter to Peterborough City Council asking for guidance, ... from a simple returnee!

Adult Social Care Unit
Peterborough City Council
Town Hall
Bridge Street
Peterborough
19 Dec 2012
Dear Sirs,
Care – Ernest James FRANCIS dob 24.5.1923 8 South Parade – a returnee asks …….

I would like to thank the Council, and those who have helped my Dad in the past,
and there have been many, I realise. Thank you, for your financial support,
tolerance and help, rendered in difficult times, I haven’t myself seen any ‘good
times’, but perhaps you have. My Dad was always a ‘difficult’ individual. But he was
himself always grateful for what others did, I know he would write this passage were he able. Thanks.
Now, could I move on.

1. You’ll be aware, those that need to be aware, of a series of
protestations/appeals/pleas/ultimatums and just ‘rants’, those too….,that I have
directed at my sister Mrs Marie Davis 20 Mayfield Rd during 2012. Social Services
are.
2. In directing my energies (rants and others) I have not always acted
sensibly.
I am not ‘cool and collected’, illogical often, such is my inner fury at
this sad episode in dad’s life.
3. IN trying to see how things work here (I left P.boro at 25 returning 3 yrs
ago, I was mostly abroad) and getting used to the UK’s ways I have not followed
sequentially, logically through a ‘pathway’. I need to backtrack and ask you politely these question, if I may
a) ‘Why do so many professionals come into this house and it is like this?’ A reference to the sub-standard conditions at 8 South Parade, ( I paraphrase) The individual also said that he was pleased his own mother, who had passed away when we spoke (Jul/Aug2012), had not had to endure such conditions. The question – have issues regarding conditions at Dad’s house been raised? Doctor, Nurses, care staff – have they been reported and recorded by these, others? That’s all – WHAT please, is ON RECORD from the ‘Pro’s’??

b) WHEN in March 2012 I detailed MY concerns, health and safety, provisions, sanitary, demeaning torn clothing etc., WHAT happened? SS letter March 2012, photos. Did anything happen.? What was it please?
c) What observations, suggestions or advice has been given to my sister? Has she been told, warned? We are talking about ‘HUMAN RIGHTS’, ‘dignity’,’ decency, ‘best interests’ and those sorts of things, you’ll be aware of that?

So that I can be better informed I would kindly ask you to expedite a reply. Despite months of appeals to SS I do not appear to have cracked much (not SS’s fault) I am sure that is my fault and that you may be able to advise me as to where I go from here. Presently, the questions above, if you could help with those, will suffice.

There must be dialogue, letter writing per se will not do it. The silence of those around such issues renders their personae more mysterious and even sinister does it not? That’s where some of my neurosis comes from I expect!!

Thanks again to those who help Dad
Yours faithfully,
Peter Francis (eldest son)
cc. NHS Nursing Care, Dad’s medical practice, Mr Stewart Jackson MP
PS Fyi - We are Marie, Peter, Jimmy – the children. Jimmy in Aus. Never to return says he!

Letter to All Souls Church Peterborough

The Rev Father David Paul
St Peter and All Souls Roman Catholic Church
Geneva Street
Peterborough PE1 2RS
18 Dec 2012

Dear Reverend Father,

Abuse of elderly vulnerable adults

This letter is to plead for your help. It is a request for spiritual guidance for my sister Marie Davis of 20 Mayfield Road Peterborough who attends Mass in Dogsthorpe.
I, we, grew up here in Peterborough at South Parade We attended Manor House Street School with the Rev. Sisters, received first Holy Communion here and were Confirmed at All Souls.
I was born in Peterborough in 1945 (67). My sister Marie (1948) was married at the Church. One at least of her daughters, Sophie, was married here too (Letwen). Mum was a regular at mass and well known, she is too frail to come very often now. Mum’s Dad, my Grandad Patrick Ryan, came to Peterborough around 1925 from Co Limerick, not sure of exact date, they lived in Gladstone Street
What is the issue?
Father it relates to the control, manipulation and worse of our almost 90 year old parents who live here. Father it has been on-going, for years. I have recently come back to Peterborough after many years abroad, I left here at age 25. What I find when I arrive ‘home’ is not pleasant. Social Services, Police and the Court of Protection are now involved. I suppose that money and control are the central themes. I wish to bring it to a conclusion because I believe that my parents’ lives have been seriously damaged and years are short now, for them. They need peace. I have been dealing with this from Dec 2011 to date Father!
Why write to the Church?br> I have tried to support the Church. I have done less than I should. If, in despair, for the sake of my parents well being, I cannot turn to the Church in extremis, then who I can turn to? For, it seems, this is either too difficult or too complicated a case for those I have mentioned. Hence I pen this note.
Rev Father, I do not wish it upon any of my fellow human beings to find their parents in the situation in which mine find themselves in and I ask and pray for intervention. Please use your powers and good guidance to seek to counsel my sister Marie Davis.
Father, may this letter be read and may it be acted upon. I hope the Church will continue to guide us all.
Thank you Father
Yours sincerely,
Peter FRANCIS

contacts:
E J Francis 8 South Parade Peterboro (Dad 1923)
Mary Ann Francis Flat 25 The Lindens Lincoln Road Pboro (1925 Mum)
Marie Davis 20 Mayfield Rd Dogsthorpe tel 565742

From Peter Francis 21 Lansdowne Walk Orton PE2 7GD 18.12.2012

Before the New Year resolutions - moments to contemplate

You do not look well, your demeanour shows it
A moment to dwell on things, might help
In your case, might you feel that you hold the key, to your own wellbeing
Not that I am concerned to be honest
I AM concerned for Mum and Dad
More importantly, clearly YOU wish to continue to use YOUR key, THE key, the one you perceive yourself to be the guardian of , to use to manipulate two people, both aged almost 90. Are you the keeper of THE key to eternity or what? HOW absurd you have become Marie DAVIS, how peverse!
They must do YOUR bidding, follow YOUR creed, YOUR view of what's good what's bad
Be dictated to by YOU
Their finances controlled by YOU
Breakfast, lunch, dinner, tea - YOUR version of each, YOUR's is right
YOU tell everyone, including Peterborough Social Services, what YOU want done,
You tell the health workers, the carers, anyone what YOU want done
YOU decide when Dad's clothes are tattered ragged and not suitable/decent
YOU tell Dad which medicine to take, ALMOST killing the man
YOU say ridiculous things such as 'put a raw egg in his food Peter'
YOU tell your brother (who is abroad) 'Peter dear you HAVE to come and help me, my marriage is suffering, come home '
YOU decide which picture you will then paint of Uncle Peter, for your children
YOU decide NOT to do ANYTHING MEANINGFUL about the stinking conditions Father lives in
YOU decide that you will clean the house when YOU want it cleaned
YOU say 'I pay Naomi £400 a month to clean Dad's house!!!!!!!!!!!' Which food to buy which not to buy, YOU choose
YOU pen ridiculous notes to carers (you always call them 'carer's' 'Dear Carer's' you say? 'Carer's please DRY plates and put them away' (stet) 'Carer's don't give him the bottle of milk'(stet) - way way out of line
YOU decide what my Mother's Will should say
YOU decide what post to open and what post to leave for almost 5 years unopened
YOU decide when to pay bills and when not to pay bills
YOU leave your Father at home without one sixpenny coin from his £1400 per month pension - you leave him to almost BEG for money - to me - AND OTHERS
YOU tell Naomi Davis 'Go and ask Grandma for money' when you please - when you are away. She does it and asks for and gets hundreds of pounds cash
YOU
YOU
YOU decide to encash every solitary penny,from his P O Card Account, as it enters, and you dispose of it somewhere
YOU
YOU (ILLICITLY AGAIN) GIVE it away, or promise to, Dad's pension, you PROMISE it to others, YOU,
. YOU HAVE documents relating to the rape of monies from second mortgage, Dad's house, YOU do nothing, YOU ignore it 'The money, oh that's gone Peter' you say in resignation. YOU have done nothing positive, maybe there are matters I know not of?
YOU and YOUR partner, misrepresent legal documents to me, you want rid of me, I am a nuisance 'Don't talk to HIM' you tell Social Services Peterborough, Ms Launds, Feb/March 2012 'He only wants to cause trouble'
FINALLY - you are right, I will cause trouble.
REMEMBER - YOU want to be in control, YOU mull it over alongside your Christmas cheer, the damage YOU seek to cause and have caused Mother and Father, think it over
Dwell upon it too. There's time. I shall be reminding you of the issues in perpetuity Amen.

Following is a list of documents which YOU will have seen:-
File locations are given:-
1. E J Francis P O Card Account Statements 2011/2012 2. Lloyds Bank Statement end 2011

Prayer for the Davis family, as we approach the holy Feastday of Christmas

Images and prayer from All Souls R R Church, Park Road, Peterborough UK. Mum's church
Family Church
We had our first Communion there, our confirmation too
Marie Davis does not attend now, she had a 'contratemps'
She attends Our Lady of Lourdes in Dogsthorpe, Peterborough

Prayer of Abandonment to God
Charles de Fouchauld ( 1858-1916)

Father,
I abandon myself into your hands; do with
me what you will. Whatever you may do I
thank you; I am ready for all, I accept all.

Let only your will be done in me, and in all
your creatures.
I wish no more than this, O Lord.

Into your hands I commend my soul; I offer it
to you, with all the love of my heart,
for I love you, Lord,
and so need to give myself
to surrender myself into your hands,
without reserve, and with boundless confidence,
for you are my Father.

Lord Jesus, I give you my hands to do your work,
I give you my feet to go your way
I give you my eyes to see as you do,
I give you my tongue to speak your words,
I give you my mind that you may think in me
Above all I give you my heart
That you may love in me your Father and all mankind.
I give you my whole self, so that you may grow in me,
So that it is you, Lord Jesus,
Who live and work and pray in me.
Amen

Abused by my father and my sister - Mary, my Mum

Mum, schizophrenic for more than 50 years. Poor mother

Daily almost, bills unpaid - just as the last time

Advice - advice? Pay the bills

Avoid another warning letter
Avoid incurring MORE £ £ penalties Overdue amounts - Telephone call -Few mins ago British Gas/ Elec
Two accounts

cust ref 850009050560 £225.90 gas
ref 850010954166 £45.83 elec
Bills Both Unpaid, November issue dates (16/11, 24/11)
They say 'Final demands' are being phased out
They can't say when any further action will be taken
Mark fm billing dept called me, their no is 0800 0480101
The billing adress has been switched fm 8 South Parade Peterborough , Dad's address, to 20 Mayfield Rd Peterborough, M N and J H Davis address
1530 hrs 17.12.2012
Same as before, over and over... incurring penalties and distress to my mother.

Daily, almost; January to December FOOD SHORTAGES

Sunday 1045
Arrive Grandad's
1100 - Carers come No milk, yoghurt little, no custard, toilet rolls, kitchen rolls (used to clean Grandad's incontinence, etc, a shopping list has already, I find, been written out by the carers at 0745
Will I buy food etc they ask, I tell them to 'phone Prestige Peterborough, which they do, I say yes I will
I find I have insufficient cash and my card is at home
I get taxi to and fro' to get the means to buy the stuff
1115 - I shop and buy it, except. I forget the jolly washingup liquid
I listen to Grandad...then I leave
1145 Mrs Marie Davis arrives, she looks unwell but doesn't speak,mumbles 'Oh No', something similar, she enters as I am leaving
Oh dear!
£14 plus £12 = £26 Mrs Davis
This, readers, is Marie Davis, mother to Joanna, Clare,Laurence,Sophie and Naomi, and wife to John Henry Davis

Among those unwilling to raise their voices or do ANYTHING
Laurence Davis
Cricketer, Castor Cricket Club

Deprivation of Liberties

15 Decd 2012
Visit to Mum and Dad 1130
You reportedly (mother) went to London for the day
You took her flat key, she was not left with one
From morning until sad evening, if she decided to go home, she was not able to get in.
This is further evidence of your egregious behaviour,very confused state of mind and lack of humanity

Caligula, mihi causas memora - What's your game?

Musa, mihi causas memora
E J Francis (Dad) Monthly pension/benefits encashed regularly (ALL) by Marie N Davis
200? - 2012 - £1400 per month (one thousand/four hundred)

Joanna Whiteman nee Davis

Mr Mother's report to me in person ...
..Reported plundering of my Dad's bank account by M N Davis
Details - follow:... Emptied... ca £800 for Private school fees for .....
And of course, followed by others, beginning many years ago, many years Joanna Whiteman's special needs school was (at the time) believed to be at Lincoln
Now Mother of two living nr Loughborough

Christmas WARNING to Marie Davis

NHS say 'old people should not be given raw eggs'
Hospital Doctor said (Dec 2011) 'Anadin caused this' 'Don't give him Anadin, it will cause stomach ulcers ' (It almost killed him December 2011!) YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED NOT TO PRESCRIBE OR SUPPLY MEDICAMENTS NOT APPROVED BY HIS DOCTOR
Be VERY cautious. crass stupidity like this can lead to a charge you know....! Caligraphy Caligula, better you stick to that, you are not a medical person, last time you got your Nooomi to look it up on the internet, you TOLD me, madness, worse than that, much worse.

Care? Letters 5 years old, unopened!

Mum moves flat
Out of control. That's Mum's own situation, manipulated whenever she can be
When, in preparation for her move, I see a pile of newspapers and unwanted circulars by the front door I was going to throw them out. THEN I look underneath, UNOPENED LETTERS from Centrica and others. One is 5 years old, 2007.
There are cheques inside in Mum's name
Amounts, just small sums from Mum's meagre savings in shares, several , £15, £6 etc etc, share dividends, those kind of sums. Poor Mum.
NOW re-issuing these cheques costs more than their value, say the companies concerned.
This is care, Davis call it so! Every week many teachers, ex teachers and Caligula come here.
That says it all, they cannot be bothered to open the post by the front door, they almost walk on it.

Advice to Sophie Letman nee Davis

I believe you are a poorimary school teacher.
Do teachers of kiddiwinks normally tell them to call the Police 'Old Bill'? This should, in my opinion be avoided, it is disrespectful.......check it out both in and wid your head (Head)! I don't think the parents of your pupils would be happy with it
I have alerted your Father as to the dangers.........xxx.... example, of your involvement in Ernest J Francis'(Dad's) P O Card account
It is advisable, I believe, to stay in touch.
PS tell the gentile Marsuc NOT to remove anything more from 8 South Parade,agin, ...please, thank you

Your fates, according to Roman Catholic belief

You and Sophist's 'Old Bill'
It is 0800'ish. I was having a tranquil breakfast, Twinings torpidus in fact, suddenly two kindly polite young police knock at the door, waking my little darlin' on the upper floors. There is a bell yes, but energy conscious, they avoid it. I let them in.
They read of Grandad's fate and seem incredulous. They leave to contact other police. Is it that you will not acknowledge your fate, your own part in it, the Davis family shame You will merely say 'non est mea culpa'?
Read my missives to Sophist, don't let Larkin's verse affect you more than you are troubled now and most sickly and unresponsive in your manner, stance and demeanour, even a little rude when challenged actually, leaving important notes uncollected, unread. Don't you owe Grandad and Grandma anything?

Your family owes them a great deal mon ami.
Message to Mrs Marie N Davis, your Caligulaesque mother
Read on and very quickly abandon your nonsense, for:
‘Ye shall witnesseth fire nigh on engulfing you; now it devours the currency notes strewn on the desert, it encircles you ferociously, silently, viciously unabating. Now flintlock frizzen and frizzled lay the blackened remnants of the worthless currencies. All rendered untouchable to all, as it all was before. Your eyes, protruding on frog like pods, filled with streams lacrimosa, reach pleadingly to the onlookers who stand silently stock still, emotionless motionless all, without the ring of strangely beautiful crimson and saffron coloured flame’ ‘Mei capilli sunt flagrantes’ sound out your hopeless cries
Ye then will know that all available Gods have forsaken you.
(Francis P. 2008 unpublished)

Hear ye

But loud clamorous cries resounded throughout the Trojan host: for they had not one speech and one language, but a confusion of tongues, since they were called from many lands. They were like a huge flock of ewes innumerable standing in a wide farmyard to be milked, which bleat without ceasing as they hear the cries of their lambs.
Iliad I

Letter to Davis J H and M N 10 Dec 2012

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Gone in maybe 4 years,by 2016, £100,000, one house
One man's labour 1939 to ca 1990, from the War to the factory floor
Gone

NOT Another Ultimatum - simply a clear message

I took two cardigans like this, towels,pants, vests - I am advising you that your extraordinary behaviour CANNOT GO ON.
IT WILL STOP
WHATEVER IT TAKES Mr and Mrs Davis, watch me.

The family home, once clean,well maintained, decent, is a mess
'It needs a deep clean' an independant statement.
Stale urine, fresh urine stench, it debases and dehumanises Dad. What about the grandkids who visit, what an example of 'care' or 'best interests'.
The standards of your dirty Mayfield Dogsthorpe home, as it has been whenever I have seen it, ARE NOT MY STANDARDS,or those of Mum and Dad. They were bordering on INDECENT and INSANITARY, as I saw them and had to endure them
I, ME, with my own hands, had to clean your house, kitchen floor all bread crumbed and cat food scattered, sink with weeks of tea stain and goo, bathroom grimey soapy slimey sink - I saw one dirtier once, only once on my travels abroad - AND tidy up your daughter's underwear from the scattered mess on her bedroom floor when you gave the room for a couple of horrible nights.
I used LOTS of bleach when you and John Hennery were out. Just HAD to, just had to. Why do you not buy BLEACH for Dad, disinfectant, loo roll, kitchen roll - many requests on almost a daily basis from carers, act on them, why?
Your Mayfield Road Home - well no, I was not used to that kind of welcome.
No, not me, I am not accustomed to that, Dad has become completely oblivious to the degredation and dirt, he cannot see, he does not want to see, Mum is too weary of your harassment to see or care any more.YOU have imposed this state of affairs upon them. YOU Caligula
That is NOT the way we grew up,they are NOT Francis standards maybe you did not notice. I am ashamed for the sake of Dad, all who enter, and the family GOOD NAME AND MY REPUTATION. I JUST DON'T SPARE A THOUGHT FOR YOUR DAVIS REPUTATION, DOESN'T CONCERN ME ONE IOTA. When SS or PCC or Police or Courts quiz me I can be proud of doing something for my Dad and Mum's DIGNITY, HR's and well-being,, and I shall continue to do it 'in their best interests'.
MOST of what you have let decay at 8 South Parade and what is dilapidations, unkempt, unseemly,dirty, insanitary, unhealthy and unsafe is listed. Pages of it, at the SS Peterborough.In March 2012. Including photos of Dad ragged cardigans and tattered underwear which I took away in disgust. I have them
Has the gas boiler been serviced? Has the elecrical safety been checked? Has the roofspace and upstairs been checked for rot and or rodents?
MORE RAGGED CLOTHING - Thursday last I took underpants and vests of Dad's. They are in rags. I keep them, I can show them. They are evidence. YOU take no notice. Mum sat FOR MONTHS on a dirty old broken wooden lavatory seat hanging on by a single screw, slipping and sliding on the toilet vessel as she sat. We had to rip the baddy thing off before you would do 'owt.

I am fit and well, even healthy thank you. I enjoy my family in Orton. I write poetry, I pen the odd article, I sing and play guitar. I am learning programming. In qiuet humility, empathy and compassion for those dear to me. I try to develop my humanity and am trying to pass it on to my children here. I am kind and gentle, most of the time. See how different we are? What is important is that I have found latterly a renewed drive, initiatives reinstated in me, more impetus in life. More love of life.
This peace and dignity will take me forward for many years, I pray. Whatever it takes Mr and Mrs John Henry. Whatever. However many years.
Quote..
I hope that between everybody concerned this can be taken forward to at least get dads house ‘cleaned up’ for him. As you quite rightly said, there is enough money in dads pot to bring the house up to a nice standard...... . If you could please update your dad. I sincerely hope that the issues that you raised with me are resolved to your satisfaction with everybody working together to achieve that goal.
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PS
Kindly tell JHD and 'Hugoo' NOT to take ANYTHING from the house again. TELL whoever is taking Dad's Dinky toys/models, to LEAVE THEM alone. After all, he has little to remind him of the encashed 2nd mortgage whatever it was I think, £40,000 or so, which plus interest is over £72,000 now and climbing (av p.a.ca 7.5% average) - he or someone has chewed up a lot of MUM's legacy AND wasted his money(you have used that word I know). 'Legacy' is the wrong word. The correct word is RIGHTS or DUES, SHE earned it. Little will be left for her.YOU should REFRAIN absolutely from coaching, grooming, pleading, coercing her about her will. Take that well in.
Others speak
Carers and others I have spoken to, their details I have, will attest to matters I have made them aware of and they have seen. They did all they could, maybe, but should have voiced more forefully their concerns, some have, others not.

Ed. 'I fink this is clear 'Enri. don't you?' Kipper huffs 'To them, search me m'duck?'

Grandad is watching you

Grandad Ernest Francis in Afghanistan 1918 - seated(?)
A very stern, upright and decent man. Hertfordshire Yeomanry. His spirit hangs over you.

House re-mortgage cash - all disapeared?

GONE - in recent years. Almost £70,000 is the sum, advanced monies plus interest.

My Mother says she got not a penny.
(HER MONEY too is in danger. I have told her.
From predators. She knows and has promised to STOP letting them take it.)

It is impossible to trace signs of that amount at the old house
What did Father do with the money, you were here, YOU could have done something to stop him
WHAT did you do? THAT was the time to act!
Questions emerge!
House value ca fsv. £100,000, joint mortgage, WHY did Mother sign the loan forms?
Do you know?
A few replacement windows there are
Nothing more
Dirt,lots of that, no toilet rolls often (what a disgrace), no disinfectant almost always (disgrace), two dilapidated broken gas fires, no proper means of cooking,
Kitchen a disgrace, YOU even stole the old freezer! NO I say. Dirt and more dirt. 'Why is it that so many professionals go in to that house and nothing is done' (paraphrase) - Police comment. 'I am glad my Mum didn't die there' - says a policeman, NOT a carer, or a health worker, or a doctor or a Nurse! A Policeman!
Just one said it - 'Yes it's true Peter' she said to me - (state of house) - ONE caller from NHS 'And we were told there are mice' -
I don't think you have managed to grasp it all MND
'She always confused, doesn't know whether she is coming or going' said Mum.
As I said before, you are NOT Mother Teresa of Calcutta by a long long shot. You never will be.

Footnote
Dad's pension is £1400/£1100 per month.
Bills mount up 'til final demand letters petrify him and my mother

Telephone has been cut off several times in last year - bill NOT paid

ONE MORNING NO INCONTINENCE PADS - He was left in bed by carers... no choice - poor sad abused Dad! Poor sod! One can of Heinz Tomato soup = lunch,mash potatoe some liquidated meat maybe = evening meal. Porridge milk yoghurt, custard
Sustinence for Mother - almost never, tea, sugar, bread, butter, sandwich filling,toilet rolls! almost never supplied.
Full details income/expenditure Jan - Nov 2012 are logged and have been put forward.
A copy of his mortgage statement (former Northern Rock) witnessed by me
Bank accounts - copies held by me
ALL his other documents have been taken from the house by whom?
Ms Sophie Davis (primary teacher) operated his P O card accounts before Mrs M N
Davis
(dates have not been made available, NO INFORMATION AND NO COOPERATION from
- Sophie Davis, M N or J H Davis - just lots of abuse!

Give the old man his pension back - give him the P O card account card back
Hand it to him, you are tired and unwell
Tell him that
STOP the abuse and manipulation of THEIR MONIES I TELL YOU. NOW please.
Return anyway/all property/papers of his to the house NOW Copies of this blog page posted to Davis 20 Mayfield Rd Peterborough Copies left at my Dad's house also

Message for 'Hugo' - do not, I suggest, take monies OR PROPERTY (as you did) from Dad or Mum, you should seek to do your job and support your family, yes, and kindly refrain from 'phoning me please, I really don't like your tone and I shall tell your Mum and Dad about it.
Remember we are SUPPOSED to be related aren't we? We were discouraged from the wedding by Herself,She, I know you were disappointed, that was not my fault - Peter

Daily newsletter

To : Davis, MN & J H (Marie and John Henry)
20 Mayfield Rd
P’boro
7 Dec 2012
Mrs and Mrs Davis - NOTICE -- I am advised, of course:
1. You do not answer letters. You respond abusively on the phone. I am constrained to
leave this letter here on the table at 8 South Parade, and will do so, every day,
from this date onwards.
2. M N Davis – I once met Mother Teresa of Calcutta. You are not she.
3. You secretively spend pennies pounds and more from Dad and Mum. Yet, it is
misspent. ‘You have no compassion’ one of your children said….. is that true? I think so
4. You spend their (parent’s pensions) money as if it were your own. You distribute
it carelessly, you have said as much, unwisely. There IS a criminal charge, one at least
5. You and J H Davis have for years taken, asked for and consumed monies from other
people – including me - because you could not support yourself and 5 or more
children
(all ‘needy’)
6. That is YOUR joint problem, not Mum and Dad’s - any malfunction/misadventure is NOT
OUR problem it is yours Mrs MN and Mr J H D.
7. John Henry Davis has been unable to work constantly and productively – YOUR
problem. I got him a job and sent him to Saudi Arabia because you asked me to do
so.
… you needed money
8. John Henry Davis is volatile and abusive – even dangerous – his and YOUR problem,
and that of your offsprings who I SAW being slammed against the wall,
one of them
9. Dad’s P O And other accounts – they are now under real scrutiny
So – get your DOCUMENTS ready. £1400 p.m./ £1100 p.m. /house £56000 mortgage cash
gone/Mum’s money? Tampered with and manipulated?
Daughters - Naomi and Sophie are involved whether they like it or not. You let it now
affect their future as it will affect your’s. IT IS YOUR PROBLEM. YOU THAT REFUSE
HELP, you Davis people

Do you want this to be the legacy you pass to your Millie and your Daisie and your
little Hugo offspring? Is it going to go away. NO is the answer, to both.

Signed Peter J Francis
6.12.2012
PS see warnings/ultimate/phone call recordsletters/regstd letters/ hand notes to L
Davis S Davis emails to N Davis H Davis M Davis March to Dec 2012 – lodged with
the Court Nov 2012/ Mum is Police Incident recorded Pboro. John Davis - STOP
threatening to call POLICE ‘OLD BILL’ you say) JHD/SD – why should I be concerned by your
threats brother?? Why? Tell me??

Funeral Costs - Thinking aloud BBC Radio 4

Where are they coming from? Tell me? Listen to Laurie Taylor and think Your Grandchildren will know about it, Millie, Daisy & Sophist's issue

DUTY

It is our duty to spend Father's pension and other incomes to his direct benefit. This is NOT being done. YOU have it, take it, purloin it all. Some you want to give away to relatives I hear?

Motive, bidding,cause, morality, 'in best interests'

To do someone's bidding when it is not in their best interests, on the contrary,and would be in the opposite interests or detriment of that individual and those around them? Can that be right? Of course it's not. If your Father brother or sister tells you to take actions that damage him or her it would clearly be wrong according to law. That is why it would be wrong in law in England to assist someone's death or suicide (to use recent examples of a close relative aiding and abetting euthanasia cases) 'In best interests' 'Morality' Subjective terms/words defined in law....

Winter at the sad cold old house, Dad at 90 endures

Winters at 90 years old The winter has set it.

The front door of the house at South Parade, right next to Dad’s bed in the downstairs front room, opens straight onto the street. Clearly a small porchway would protect the room from the cold. The door is opened frequently. The old door is unprotected from draughts even when closed. It should be a better more insulated protected opening to the room for the sake of whoever is in it.
My father’s resilience to harsh conditions was born from his childhood experience, he is hardy, less now though than earlier in his life.
£1000 or so might be sufficient to put in a better door providing more warmth in the front room. You do nothing, a new lavoratory seat, a microwave - took years and years to buy, in 2010! SS told me you never wanted it, YOU told me too. You knew best.
To heat the dinners I took to Dad I boiled water in saucepans on the dirty little slow archaic electric hot plates, the only cooking possibility there, even now, except for one £50 microwave.
Uncle John would have wished to do it, he would not have wanted his brother to face cold blasts of air at 90.
Father himself seems to have wasted most of the monies he encashed and kept, those raised a few years ago from Northern Rock. What did you take? More than half of the house has gone, my Mother has not had a penny of it she says and there is very little new to see in house improvements or maintenance(for the betterment of all who visit the property. That contrasts with the silliness of Father’s dinkie toys and assorted wall clocks from Argos most of which do not function now. The rows and rows of primroses and other flowers, plants and trees in pots and tubs which lined the length of the garden path have also disappeared, dead and gone. I am surprised to see Father has not followed them.
Uncle John would have been disbelieving that his money has been taken whilst Father lay in cardigans so torn and sad that he himself would not have used them even for working at his painting and decorating.
You, Mrs J H Davis, made it clear what his wishes were to Martha and I. And you and your husband have ignored them. You have refused to provide any information on the fate of my Uncle’s effects, monies and property, you did not advise me of his death or funeral. You handled it all very quietly with your children.
While I carried evening meals on two buses for father,heating them over boiling water on a dirty hotplate, you snaffled everything up.

adapted prayer

Gracious Father, I pray for your Church.
Fill it with your truth, and keep it in your peace,
Where it is corrupt, purge it;
where it is in error, direct it; where it is right, strengthen and confirm it;
where it needs help, provide for it;
where it is divided, heal it,
and unite it in your love,
through Jesus Christ our Saviour.
Amen

source St Guthlac's website