IT WILL STOP
WHATEVER IT TAKES Mr and Mrs Davis, watch me.
The family home, once clean,well maintained, decent, is a mess
'It needs a deep clean' an independant statement.
Stale urine, fresh urine stench, it debases and dehumanises Dad. What about the grandkids who visit, what an example of 'care' or 'best interests'.
The standards of your dirty Mayfield Dogsthorpe home, as it has been whenever I have seen it, ARE NOT MY STANDARDS,or those of Mum and Dad. They were bordering on INDECENT and INSANITARY, as I saw them and had to endure them
I, ME, with my own hands, had to clean your house, kitchen floor all bread crumbed and cat food scattered, sink with weeks of tea stain and goo, bathroom grimey soapy slimey sink - I saw one dirtier once, only once on my travels abroad - AND tidy up your daughter's underwear from the scattered mess on her bedroom floor when you gave the room for a couple of horrible nights.
I used LOTS of bleach when you and John Hennery were out. Just HAD to, just had to. Why do you not buy BLEACH for Dad, disinfectant, loo roll, kitchen roll - many requests on almost a daily basis from carers, act on them, why?
Your Mayfield Road Home - well
no, I was not used to that kind of welcome.
No, not me, I am not accustomed to that, Dad has become completely oblivious to the degredation and dirt, he cannot see, he does not want to see, Mum is too weary of your harassment to see or care any more.YOU have imposed this state of affairs upon them. YOU Caligula
That is NOT the way we grew up,they are NOT Francis standards maybe you did not notice. I am ashamed for the sake of Dad, all who enter, and the family GOOD NAME AND MY REPUTATION. I JUST DON'T SPARE A THOUGHT FOR YOUR DAVIS REPUTATION, DOESN'T CONCERN ME ONE IOTA. When SS or PCC or Police or Courts quiz me I can be proud of doing something for my Dad and Mum's DIGNITY, HR's and well-being,, and I shall continue to do it 'in their best interests'.
MOST of what you have let decay at 8 South Parade and what is dilapidations, unkempt, unseemly,dirty, insanitary, unhealthy and unsafe is listed. Pages of it, at the SS Peterborough.In March 2012. Including photos of Dad ragged cardigans and tattered underwear which I took away in disgust. I have them
Has the gas boiler been serviced? Has the elecrical safety been checked? Has the roofspace and upstairs been checked for rot and or rodents?
MORE RAGGED CLOTHING - Thursday last I took underpants and vests of Dad's. They are in rags. I keep them, I can show them. They are evidence. YOU take no notice.
Mum sat FOR MONTHS on a dirty old broken wooden lavatory seat hanging on by a single screw, slipping and sliding on the toilet vessel as she sat. We had to rip the baddy thing off before you would do 'owt.
I am fit and well, even healthy thank you. I enjoy my family in Orton. I write poetry, I pen the odd article, I sing and play guitar. I am learning programming. In qiuet humility, empathy and compassion for those dear to me. I try to develop my humanity and am trying to pass it on to my children here. I am kind and gentle, most of the time. See how different we are?
What is important is that I have found latterly a renewed drive, initiatives reinstated in me, more impetus in life. More love of life.
This peace and dignity will take me forward for many years, I pray. Whatever it takes Mr and Mrs John Henry. Whatever. However many years.
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I hope that between everybody concerned this can be taken forward to at least get dads house ‘cleaned up’ for him. As you quite rightly said, there is enough money in dads pot to bring the house up to a nice standard...... . If you could please update your dad.
I sincerely hope that the issues that you raised with me are resolved to your satisfaction with everybody working together to achieve that goal.
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PS
Kindly tell JHD and 'Hugoo' NOT to take ANYTHING from the house again. TELL whoever is taking Dad's Dinky toys/models, to LEAVE THEM alone. After all, he has little to remind him of the encashed 2nd mortgage whatever it was I think, £40,000 or so, which plus interest is over £72,000 now and climbing (av p.a.ca 7.5% average) - he or someone has chewed up a lot of MUM's legacy AND wasted his money(you have used that word I know). 'Legacy' is the wrong word. The correct word is RIGHTS or DUES, SHE earned it. Little will be left for her.YOU should REFRAIN absolutely from coaching, grooming, pleading, coercing her about her will. Take that well in.
Others speak
Carers and others I have spoken to, their details I have, will attest to matters I have made them aware of and they have seen. They did all they could, maybe, but should have voiced more forefully their concerns, some have, others not.
Ed. 'I fink this is clear 'Enri. don't you?' Kipper huffs 'To them, search me m'duck?'
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